ZOMBIE SQUIRTS!
  • Home
  • Reviews
  • Alicia C Mattern
  • Blog
  • Home
  • Reviews
  • Alicia C Mattern
  • Blog
Search by typing & pressing enter

YOUR CART

12/17/2017 0 Comments

Talking to Kids About Bullying - Education News

Talk About Bullying - Education News - A. Masterton

Talk to your kids about bullying
Zombie Squirts Were Lucky Enough To Get Featured in an Article Today!

Don't Wait...Talk to your kids about bullying

Parent's Against Bullying

Most people remember getting bullied at some point in their childhood. It could have been the scary girl at the back of the school bus who kept threatening to beat you up, or it could have been a gang of jocks who kept stuffing you in the locker during middle school.
​
​They used their words, their fists, or sometimes both. Kids can be mean to each other for a lot of reasons, or sometimes seemingly no reason at all. Either way, it’s a relief to leave that period of our life behind, usually around the time we leave high school and go to college. Sure, people can be mean to you in college, but you usually have more options for avoiding them at that level.

When we have kids, though, we start seeing bullying through a completely different set of eyes, and the pain can be visceral.

​It’s hard to know what to say to a kid who comes from school upset every day, but you have to say something.
Parents against bullying

Avoid empty platitudes

Think about your childhood bullying experiences. Did your parents tell you things like “Oh, she’s just jealous?” If so, was that a very helpful thing to hear? Probably not. Looking back, maybe the girl who called you “barfbreath” was jealous of something, but maybe she wasn’t. It can be really hard to know, and even if you’re 100 percent sure about someone’s motivation, it doesn’t mean you’re any closer to solving the problem.
Bullying Resources
Be especially careful with your daughters. If a boy is throwing dirt in her face or pulling on her pigtails, don’t tell her “That just means he likes you.” Maybe some boys are trying to show affection that way, but you don’t want your daughter to associate mean, cruel behavior with love.
​
​You don’t want your son to do that either, but it seems like boys are given a pass for this behavior more often than girls. If someone is trying to flirt with you, they can tease you, but it shouldn’t be done in a hostile or abusive manner. You probably wouldn’t tell a 30-year-old woman that her boyfriend’s uncontrollable jealousy “is only because he cares,” so don’t tell a 10-year-old girl that either.

The value of positive media

Movies, music, TV, and books can show us a lot about who we are, as well as who we’d like to be. For example, the Pixar movie “Inside Out” resonated strongly with a lot of depression sufferers because there was literally a character called Sadness.

​We feel less alone when we see characters dealing with the same stuff we encounter in our everyday lives. So if your child is dealing with persistent bullying, consider investing in some anti-bullying books for kids. You can read the books together and talk about the message behind them.
Anti bullying Zombie Squirts

Kids and Their Questions About Bullying

Kids ask a lot of questions. It’s their trademark. Some questions are easy to answer, like “Why do I have to go to the dentist?” Questions about things like bullies and divorce and death are harder to answer. The good news is that your child probably isn’t expecting perfect answers. Engage with the topics in a way that’s both age-appropriate and honest, and you’ll be doing a lot better than most parents.

​Zombie Squirts are the ONLY Anti-Bullying Zombie Kids "Alive!" These fun characters show the importance of accepting everyone for who they are. These Children's books are a perfect Gift! Get Your Copy TODAY!
Picture
0 Comments

Your comment will be posted after it is approved.


Leave a Reply.

    "Mamma Z"

    Mamma Z is the Author and Illustrator of the Children's Book Series "Zombie Squirts." She is on a mission to eliminate bullying!

    Archives

    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017

    Categories

    All Bullying Blogs Events Nationally Featured Articles Video Blogs

    RSS Feed

Picture
Subscribe to our Anti-bullying YouTube Channel!
Picture
Picture
GoodReads
Picture
Picture
Picture
INQUIRIES: ZombieSquirts@yahoo.com
© 2018 Zombie Squirts. All Rights Reserved.
Anti-Bullying Children's Books